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Join us on Wed, Dec. 31st at our 3rd annual TBL New Year's Eve Pajama House Party!
I/We are looking for
Down to earth couple seeks single ladies and select couples for fun and friendship.
Hey, what's up? I am black and bisexual. My hubby is white and straight. We get asked a lot of questions, so we are going to share a little info about us to help answer them beforehand. If we left anything out, feel free to ask us any other question you may still have.
We are a married, interracial couple and have one small child that keeps us very busy doing a lot of family things. We are also full-time working professionals, so our free time is very limited during the week. But when we can, we like to get out and visit lifestyle clubs and house parties. Feel free to join us anytime. We welcome anyone that is respectful and fun.
ABOUT US PERSONALLY...
We have been together for over 16 years. And we've been in the lifestyle even longer than that. We enjoy being able to feel free and share each other with certain friends. We only swing with good friends. We also love making new friends and hanging out. However, we don't play with everybody that we hang out with. And you don't have to swing to enjoy our company.
We are very down to earth, friends and respectful to all. And that's all we ask in return from other people. My man is straight, he loves to flirt and tease with the ladies. He is generally into normal sex. I on the other hand, like wild, rough and different sexual adventures. I love to play with toys, be spanked and bitten. I am just as into the ladies as I am the men. We both always play safe, all the time. For us, being swingers is not just so we can have sex with others.
It's not all about the sex for us. We also like the openness that the lifestyle affords us and enjoying the friendships of others with open minds. When we go out, we are going out to be with each other and hang out with friends. If we do play with them, that's great. If not, then it's no big deal for us. We have and always plan on being in the lifestyle. We are in no rush, nor do we feel the need to have sex with a lot of people. We like to treat swinging as dating: if we get to know each other and everybody clicks - then so be it. If not, just being friends is okay with us too.
My husband likes to have a few drinks when we go out. I do on occasion also. However, we don't like to be around people that have to get drunk to have a good time every time they go out. Also, we don't care to be around those that choose to do hard drugs. We don't judge others, however, we don't like the trouble or the problem that can arise from hanging out with those that do stuff like that. We don't particularly care what others do. But please, don't do it or have it around us.
Due to us having a family and trying to keep it safe, as well as keeping our personal "adult" time and family and work time separate, we never give out too much personal information about ourselves, unless we've known you offline for a long time. Just because we don't give out our private info, that doesn't mean we won't share that our real friends in the lifestyle eventually. It's to safeguard us from all the creepy weirdos lurking out there. So please understand.
Please read our MUST haves:
1. Excellent hygiene.
2. Disease free & use protection.
3. Meet first for drinks, or dancing, or dinner and see how it goes.
4. Be respectful, polite, not pushy, with manners.
5. Must have a strong urge for life, and excitement for the little things in life. Therefore, you can't be boring!
6. Must love to flirt & kiss. Kissing goes hand in hand with sex. If you can't separate sex & love, then why are you swinging?
7. RECENT FACE PICTURES ARE A MUST!
Tell us about your fantasies and/or real experiences.
As for the lifestyle, we agree 100% in living life to the fullest in order to be happy. And we encourage everybody to live their life however they feel the need to do so. We love the swinging lifestyle and try very hard to help others learn and share swinging in a good and healthy way.
We also understand that this lifestyle isn't for everybody and we respect people for their choices in life. All we ever ask is that people show and give us the same respect back. We do not push swinging on others, but if asked, we are honest about beliefs regarding it. And we are proud to be members of this lifestyle. So, we try to help those just getting started into swinging learn about it and the rules and respect issues. We try to welcome those who are serious about the lifestyle. If you would like to hang out with us, please let us know. Or, just come up and say 'hi' to us if you see us out at a local club or event. We welcome anyone that is respectful and open-minded to join us when we're out and about. We have been in this lifestyle for a long time, so feel free to write us if you have any questions or anything you might need advice on.
1 - If you are into girl on girl only, we are not the couple for you.
2 - If you are not into kissing, we are not the couple for you.
3 - If you refuse to use condoms for intercourse, we are not the couple for you.
4 - If you are not into full swap, we are not the couple for you.
What else would you like to say, do, see, hear about or learn about.
OUR TURNS OFFS ARE ..
Pushy, rude, mean and/or stuck-up people. People that like to cause trouble and/or drama.
We tried to answer most of the questions that are normally asked of us. But feel free to write us anytime if you're interested in knowing more about us.
Now, since you all know about us, feel free to post some info about yourselves as well.
Play safe and play nice,
Brian and Angela
Also, we own a group on here called the Tampa Bay Lifestylers, where we host 1 or 2 swinger's events every month in and around the greater Tampa Bay area. Our group consists of mostly couples and some select singles. Feel free to join.